One thing is for sure. I will teach my children differently.
They will be happy for real. They will find joy in their own way.
They will have the freedom to choose. They will travel the world with me. Or maybe
on their own too. They will explore. They will not be given ipods and ipads
until they know they have grown up. They will feel the sand in the beach; the
shore and the sea. They will play in the playgrounds. They will have quality
time with family. They will speak openly anything and everything to me. They
will have a mutual best friend in their family. They will know to fight for
their sister. They will paint their walls if they want to. They will make
sandcastles. They will fly kites. They will go cycling and skating. They will learn to say 'i love you' and 'Sorry' a lot more. They will know that actions speak more than those words. They will learn to cuddle, to hug and to feel love for real. They will
learn that Quran is their guide. They will have to turn to it at all times. They
will see to stand up to the Sunnah even if it meant to stand alone. I will
learn to realize they can grow up to make decisions. They can be on their own
as long as they are trusted. They can fall in love as long as they are honest
and committed. They will see the ups in life. They will also see the downs.
They will learn to give wholeheartedly. They will learn to receive humbly. They
will learn to buy gifts. They will learn to make their own hobbies. They will learn to bake. They will
learn to gain knowledge and not just educational degrees. They will choose
their own struggles. They will fight their own battles. They will know about
writing letters. Messages in a bottle will be their own. They will visit their
grandparents often. They will learn to sew if they’d like their own dresses.
They will learn to write if they’d want to read more. They will make their own
library at home. They will learn to lead prayers. They will learn to teach.
They will learn to make mistakes. They will learn to learn. They will learn to get scared. They will learn to be strong. They will learn to complain. They will learn to forgive. Most of all, they
will learn the insignificance of this life. Yet they will learn to be concerned when they need to be.They will learn to connect to Allah alone. They will learn to ask from Him. They will learn to let go.
They will learn to live life to the fullest. They will
perhaps live a part of my life. And perhaps they will live a lot more!
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